I met with a second surgeon regarding my left shoulder last week. He’s a sports medicine expert, specializing in shoulders. He had a new ex-ray taken when I arrived and reviewed an electronic copy of my cat scan and MRI. We talked a bit as he pulled on my arms and rattled statistics to his …
Category: Life Lessons
Eyes on the Prize
When I went off to college in the fall of 1965 I planned to become an attorney. I really didn’t know what an attorney did other than wear a suit to work and use his brain rather than his back to make a living. Most of the men I knew used their back. I had …
Coffee’s Ready
When I was a kid my mom and dad had a percolator to make coffee. They put water in the pot, ground coffee in a metal basket, inserted the basket into a metal tube that fit inside the percolator bottom, put the top on the percolator, placed the percolator on the kitchen stove, and fired …
It’s Just Coffee
When I began my look into meeting new women on a dating site, I moved forward cautiously. It was new territory, and I didn’t want to make any wrong moves. Turns out I haven’t made many moves at all. The ones I had in my youth are gone. Over the past several months I’ve seen …
Based On a True Story
If I ever publish another book, I think I’ll call it Based on a True Story. That’s what all my writing is. While I don’t look down on those who write fiction, writing about my life as the stories reappear is just easier for me. As I’ve written before, it’s the truth as I remember …
Two Roads
I applied to be superintendent of Britton-Macon Area School in 1988. I was one of six selected to be interviewed. I had a choice of interview dates and times. I chose the final day and preferred the final time, but that slot was already taken. I believed that the first and last candidate had an …
Another Big Decision
My time in Addison was great. That’s where the kids grew up. Ruth and I lived there for forty-three years. We didn’t have Michael when we arrived, and he was forty-two, married for more than ten years, when we left. I was hired on August 16th, 1977, the day Elvis Presley died. Once I knew …
More Decisions
My first thought regarding a master’s degree was, “I’ll study to become a counselor”. I made an appointment with Western’s counseling department, and the dean of the school interviewed me. It was, without a doubt, my worst interview ever. When he asked why I wanted to get into counseling I said, “I like talking to …
Decisions
I’ve been watching the most recent season of The Crown. It’s the sixth. The thing I find most interesting is most of the decisions made by the “royal family” are made by tradition. They do what is expected and not necessarily what they want to do. That’s how they operate each of their lives. The …
What Time Is It?
I don’t recall any of the kids first words. I know they each have a “baby book” and whatever they said is written in their respective book. If I was to hazard a guess, they probably offered some version of mom or dad. Probably mom. I do know David’s first sentence. We were driving home …