This is the story you were supposed to see. Ruth’s been editing again. If you’ve been reading my blog over the past several weeks, you know that I’ve been taking dance lessons. It’s been harder than I thought it would be. Barbara and I have completed three classes, dropped out of one and started three …
UMRF
I took my Marriage Rules and AI’s advice, put them in a pot, shook them together and asked AI to summarize our joint observations. When the words came out, I had the UMRF. I think it’s pretty good. …
AI’s Marriage Rules
The artificial intelligent site I checked out provided the following observations regarding marriage. They’re matter of fact, built on statistics rather than personal observations. That doesn’t make them bad, just different. The ones I developed for David, Elizabeth and Michael were “before” marriage guidelines. AI’s are more encompassing. Align on Core Values Shared beliefs about …
No One Asked Me But…
Almost thirty years ago I developed The Marriage Rules for David, Elizabeth and Michael. The boys had brought home their current girlfriends during the college Christmas break. Michael was a freshman at Michigan State and David was a junior at Spring Arbor. I wrote the following blog about the development of the marriage rules and …
Conversations
After Ruth died I didn’t have anyone to hold a conversation with. I was alone. My three kids checked in on me to make sure I was OK. My friends and sisters did too, but checking in is different than having a meaningful conversation. If you’re engaged in a relationship, it’s normal to discuss the news …
Tomorrow
Tomorrow marks another Thanksgiving without several people I love. I chose Ruth and my friends, Jim and Mitch, to be a part of my life. Each one changed me bit by bit. I was born into my parents and cousin, Gene. It was love based upon circumstance. I didn’t have a say in the matter, …
Always, Forever and Never
I came across a quotation the other day that caused me to ponder a bit: Always is a habit. Forever is a hope. Never is a boundary. Those words carried me back to when our kids were growing up. Ruth and I leaned on them often. Never was the one we used most. One of …
Ed 108
I posted my first blog on November 19, 2017. I was starting a new hobby to help me fill my retirement hours. I knew nothing about writing but wanted to give it a shot. As of today, I’ve been writing my blog for eight years, and this is my 836th story. I chose my friend, …
Main Squeeze
I’ve written about the epiphany I had in my closet a year ago following my shoulder surgery. I was ending the seven weeks I spent recording my audiobook, thinking about my lot in life, wishing it would change and realizing I was the only one who could change it. I didn’t take action until I …
Another Second Chance
I originally wrote this tale in June of 2019. It was called Second Chances. I was about a year and a half into writing my blog when I published it. A ton has changed since that day. Life is full of surprises. Some are good. Some are tough to take. A couple of times a …